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How badly do you want to feel important?
On our journey to success, we often get so wrapped up in our objectives, our timelines, and our pressures that we forget the crucial role of human connection, validation, and appreciation. Everyone, irrespective of their position, desires to feel valued and recognized. This silent need is a universal human craving, something as critical as the air we breathe.
I actually like this quote above. It is about recognizing and honoring this fundamental human desire. It's about transforming our interactions with people by making them feel important, respected, and valued. You can use this as leverage to make yourself stick out in a good way. But ultimately, it helps make you feel good.
Here are your three lessons:
Emphasize Empathy: Start with understanding and acknowledging the feelings, thoughts, and situations of others. Empathy fosters connections and mutual respect. It allows you to see the world from their perspective, validating their experiences and making them feel understood and important.
Express Genuine Appreciation: Take the time to recognize the efforts, contributions, and accomplishments of others. A simple 'Thank you' or 'Well Done' can go a long way in making someone feel valued. Authentic recognition reinforces their self-esteem and motivates them to keep striving.
Listen Actively: Active listening involves fully focusing, understanding, responding, and then remembering what is being said. When you listen actively, you communicate respect and importance to the speaker, making them feel truly heard and valued.
Incorporating these practices in your daily interactions is not just good ethics, but also excellent strategy. When people feel valued, they are more engaged, productive, and loyal. They bring their best selves to their roles, enriching the collective environment with positivity and dynamism.
So, the next time you interact with someone, remember the invisible sign hanging around their neck. Make them feel important, and watch as your relationships, teams, and collaborations flourish.
You’re not just a task-doer, you are a human, craving connection and validation. Let's commit to making everyone around us feel important.
Regards, and keep moving forward.
Derick, The Founder’s Frontier
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